The first video chat I had was the free one and I was disappointed that the lady was a video record and not live video of the girl like the site claims it was. How do I know, because I asked the lady to do some simple things but she could not do anything I asked for, she could only do the things she suggested. Because they do video recored of several things the lady do, and then some workers who operate the accounts can easy switch to a record that fit different situations. But they are not able to do something that is not planned or recorded so the ladies or workers need to dominate the chat, so there is not possible for a man to decide too much. Now it starts to be interesting, because for a longer date you will meet the real girl. A conversation that is planned good time ahead. The site and the girls work together. But the lady do not know so much about you as you think. So they flirt a lot and talk about many different topics to avoid things you think they know about you. Over time they learn some depending on how many they have to meet. But this girls have their own private life, and not everyone are single as they pretend to be. It is possible to meet girls in real life, and here they will play an act for you, and behave like they know you and are interested and your girl friend. Many use translator and the translator play a part of the game as the site, and they also have connections around where they have their meetings, because it is organized crime and many people who wish to earn money on this. It is other sites who do the same. So maybe you meet a girl and but some girls play more than others and maybe become more close than others. Some act better than others. After a real meeting you maybe find out that it is not so good connection, and yes because it is only a game. Some maybe have meeting again and you are welcome to spend more money in their crim network. Some ladies who are single maybe go so far that they can become intimate. Are you lucky you find a girl you like and she by chance like you and maybe it can become something real, but be careful to believe and hope too much. But if you have much money and time then you are welcome to waste it on this site and girls you meet in real. It is not easy to prove that a person have serious intention or not, but you have to see if this is an act or not, and notice everything that happen. Can the lady communicate outside the site using translate program or accept a translator you know,and if they wish to meet you in your country and your home and your family. Find first out if the video chat is real and do not let the girl rule conversation too much. Find out what they know about you after a while. Some are good actors some are not. Few maybe even go to bed with you. But if you get married they you have been very lucky. Notice the support is very nice, but they can not help you to find out if the girl really like you, because they work with the girls and it is an organized act or crime! And you can not ask the girl if she is serious with you, because she will tell you what can help her to earn money as far as she feel she can go with you.